My 40 Year Old Face

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A few days ago, I was met with an unsavory decision…to photoshop or not to photoshop. 

My friend and photographer, Lupita from Images Of Rain Photography , took my headshots for me a couple of weeks ago, and I could hardly wait to get the proofs back.

I love her, and I love her work. 

When I did get the proofs, I was immediately drawn to one photo of me that I thought looked great.  And I was right…it looked so great that I didn’t even recognize myself! 

As I scanned the other photos, I became painfully aware that the photos that caught my eye, were not a real representation of me. I clicked on the unedited version of the same photos and I just sat and stared at them.  For a while.  I thought, “this is what I look like.”

Those wrinkles.

Those age spots.

That nose.

That wild hair.

This is you.

THIS is what people see when you’re standing face-to-face.

 

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This is it.  My 40 year old face. 

And I had to decide in that moment who I wanted to be.  Just a pretty face, or real and authentic? 

Considering that the Her Hippie Heart logo includes the phrase “down-to-earth,” I decided to opt for the latter. Embracing this laugh lined, sleep deprived, dehydrated, sun damaged, dessert-loving face wasn’t easy, but it was the right thing to do.

THIS is NOT me.

 

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THIS is.

 

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THIS is not.

 

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THIS is.

 

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My 40 year old face is showing, and I’m learning to be OK with that.

Peace & Love,

Carrrie

 

 

 

 

12 thoughts on “My 40 Year Old Face

  1. You have a beautiful face and smile. I don’t photoshop my pictures either. I like to see the lines. I think of them like lines of wisdom. Each one has a story. Lucky me, I have lots of tales to tell and lots more coming. ?

  2. I think you are stunning. And I love your wrinkles. They add so much character and beauty to your otherwise gorgeous face.

    P.S. I am a style blogger and I have never photoshopped my images. Mostly because I am lazy, and I rarely wear make up. 🙂

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